Tuesday, September 2, 2008

Setting an Example

As a human, there are a lot of obstacles through the course of life that sometimes creates inconvenience or even blocks us in our quotidian needs. Sometimes, the stress level of each individual is proportionally equal to the amount of work each individual have, that getting a little more work to do, may or may not be very overwhelming. Nonetheless, that shouldn't be an excuse or a scapegoat to our obligation in this life which clearly is setting an example to others-whether the intended audience is the youth or peers. We as humans tend to procrastinate and often never end up doing the work because of human nature, but if we really picture the idea-setting an example- this can be simultaneously done without even doing any extra labor. Although this task may be easy to others and may be hard for some, trying is always acceptable. In conclusion, wherever we are whether we are at school, work, or at home, setting an example will not only benefit others, but as an individual as well.
When we grow as a person, there can be multiple benefits and maturity levels. There can be many factors contributing to our individual growth, such as experiences, struggles and perseverance. In this case we will be talking about perseverance and how this shapes our identity and personality. Therefore, by having that integrated into our minds we can apply those ideas into setting an example to our surroundings. First, lets see how and why would perseverance contribute into molding ourselves and personality. By looking to the past and the knowledge that we have gained because of history, we see that because of the heroic things that Gandhi did for his country, we see later on that Martin Luther King Jr. himself followed those steps. It wasn't only because Gandhi was well known around the world that led Martin Luther King decide to follow his steps, but because of the perseverance that Gandhi had Martin Luther King was able to understand the steps. Nonetheless, here we had the example of Gandhi and his perseverance and the outcome of his perseverance, but now let's take that same idea and put them in terms that we can comprehend it better.
One interesting way we can illustrate a perfect example that can suit anyone in is the example a student who is struggling to get good grades by multiple obstacles. Some of those obstacles include domestic violence in his/her home, gang fights around his/her house, constant shooting, bad teachers and bad influence in school. Here many would fail into the temptation of drugs or liquor, but this particular student refuses. Here many wouldn't do their homework because they know that the teacher is not going to collect it, but this particular student despite the bad teacher still studies and gets his/her work done regardless if the teacher is going to collect it the next day. Here many would be depressed and scared because of the violence in the home and outside the street, but this particular student will still strive for success. Here we see the difference between an excellent student and a student who doesn't care; however, I never mentioned a student who is on both sides of the coin. What could possibly motivate him more? Is it the bad student or the excellent student. Note both students have the equal amount of problems, but what differentiates them is their action. In sum, this example isn't going to gain independence or end segregation, but it will change some one's life.
As we saw in the second paragraph, Gandhi's teachings and perseverance let to the independence of India and many other things such as the end of segregation in which Martin Luther King is credited for. As we observed in the second paragraph, the things that someone does really does matter because who knows, maybe the person who observed was really impressed and could possible do it themselves. As we saw also noticed in the second paragraph, the example is very legit and many would say,"Of course Gandhi could set an example, he is a hero." Well, we see that Gandhi is a hero now, but during those times he wasn't a hero, some didn't even noticed his works. Even if he is a hero setting an example for the newcomers or the young ones isn't compared to what Gandhi did. Nevertheless, we aren't here talking about excuses and how to find a scapegoat within an excellent example like Gandhi, we are talking about how to set an example and one way we can start is by looking at other people who excelled at it. Moreover, perseverance is the key to setting an example and in anyway we cannot accomplish anything without a great amount of perseverance and dedication.

9 comments:

Grana2_jr said...

From one Great writer to the other,

To be or not to be? Which do we wish to be? In the end we will go on to choose whether we want to be that who sets the example or follow the example. I personally want to be the one who sets the example better yet, I want to be the one who sets a great example. If we think about it, everyone sets an example one way or do other. Some people choose to set the example that drinking is right, others choose to show you the example of drunking being wrong. I admire that you are the type of person who wishes to be a positive example. I see a lot of potential in you and I look forward to joining you in the quest of excellence. Just a a clarification to your comment, in the end I did not have cancer however the fact that the option was there during that time made me realize that our lives can go just as easy as they came. Once again, thnks for commenting my blog and I'm looking forward to working with you.

Edwin Granados

radio_nessa said...

Gandhi is a wonderful example of being a hero, or a role model. He showed true dedication towards something he held a strong passion for and he never wavered in his determination.
I do believe that Gandhi has a set a goal or a standard for all of us to meet. He was a man who changed his country for the better, even though he faced so much obstacles. He showed that violence is never an option. If people do chose to make such a foolish choice, it can bring about horrible consequences.
Ironically, I was listening to a song that relates to your topic. "Handlebars" by the Flobots is about a man saying about who he is and of what he can accomplish. He mentions that he can cure or destroy the world. It's a very powerful, symbolic song that is about the choices that one can make, good and bad.

Leslie C. said...

Joel I feel that you chose the right topic because you really are interested and you know what it is you want to talk about. You are speaking about role models like Ganhi and Martin Luther King and I just wanted to ask Who has been a role model to you? Who do you want to be a role model to? What kind of changes do you want to do? How hve you over come your obstacles to get yhings done? This are things you state in your post and it is very interesting and detail. Thanks for the comment.

Grana2_jr said...

"Setting an Example"

I believe I’ve shared with you my views towards what a true example is. The way I see it is as following; you either set a good example or you set a bad example. Easy enough I’d hope, and self explanatory I believe. Upon reading your blog I was left with the impression that you believed setting a GOOD example was the ideal thing to do. It pleased to know that other students such as me believe that one person can make a difference and that if we put it to ourselves we can help others overcome obstacles.

Forgive me for my slang, but Bro I’d like to invite you to set a positive example to the rest of your peers. I was unpleased to see such negativity in your comments towards your fellow classmates. We are here to help each other and encourage one other to excel as writers and as people. Telling a person off and asking them not to take it personally is a foul assumption. We all have feelings and from this course we wish to be filled with knowledge and not be put down by those whom we consider our “family”.

Let us set a good positive example to the rest of this world. Let us look at others equally and contribute to the enrichment of others rather then their misery. I challenge you to read over the blogs of your classmates and thoughtfully respond to the message they are trying to send to the reader. Look beyond the grammatical structure and look into the true meaning of their writing.

From one fellow writer to the other,

Edwin Granados

edwin garcia said...

Joel,
With many people out in the world it is easy to find a role model. And if people can find the person who they wish to be the most like then they should not follow in their exact footsteps, but be guided by them. Whenever we think of role models we think of people who do good right? But what if someone doesn't choose to follow a "good" guy? The man or woman set an example and others chose to follow it. Is the "bad" guy still a role model? I would say yes, then again that's just my opinion. I would very much like to hear more about this topic.

-Edwin Garcia

James/J.R. said...

Dear Joel,
You have a good introduction to your topic and i would like to read more but i personally think that setting an example starts from ourselves and who we are as a person. These great people you talked about was once a regular person as we are but they stood up for what they believed in. I think that even in our everyday lives we could set an example to anyone from picking up trash to standing up from injustice who knows but setting an example can also be used in a bad way. I would like to read more about your blog.

steviesaur1105 said...

Hello,
I believe everyone's a role model to someone in their lives. I don't see role models as an example of who we should be like, i see it as an example where we should have that aim to go beyond that. This society is made up of leaders and followers and without any one of those this society will crumble. For me I am a follower and I have no role model. I don't look for one and neither does someone look to be my role model. I don't even seek to be a role model. I want to be myself at all times possible and change the world through noe stage at a time. Do you think your a role model to someone?

Hugo J said...

As i scan through your blog i notice you put alot of heart in your blog.I could notice the time and effort you put in your blog.Well the thing i like about your blog is the great discriptive words that you use.I also enjoy reading your blog because of all that detail that you put in it.All that detail you put made it seem like if you had been studying this topic for years.I think your topic goes with you because i think you are and example.Writing about how to be an example makes you look like an example as well.

sherre vernon said...

Joel,

I see so much potential in you! I am worried about your recent absence, and more about the fact that you're not 100% on top of your assignments when I know you can be. If there is any way I can support you, don't be afraid to ask.

That goes for all of you.

sherre